Regret It Forget It

 

If I had known back then what I knew now, I probably would have still made the same decisions.

When we regret, or make decisions that we thought were ideal at the time but the outcome was not as we expected we tend to experience guilt.
If it wasn’t for those “mistakes” we would not have been here today. At least since you’re reading this that means you made it?

There are things I might have thought twice about, but if I could tell my slightly younger self anything, it would be to ‘stick it out’ “you’re doing just fine.”
If I had a magic wand and could make adjustments to what I didn’t like or moments from my past, I would be unprepared, making flimsy mistakes; as an adult today.

Without mistakes there is no learning curve, without experience life will never teach you anything.

How To Have A Life And Social Media Too

 

You know that sound screeching sound you hear from a tyre that breaks through wreck less driving? That’s social media (once in a while). A car that needs servicing but ‘its just going to have to wait.’ There’s not much redemption ‘online’ however, we (they; us; over there but not including you & I; ) are experts on… Everything. I’m glad I can say I’m not addicted to social media, nor is it life or death if I’m not on every-single-platform-for-the-sake of it. Nope.

 

 

Haha love

 

I’m at that stage now where there’s got to be a purpose. If its not blog related or something that makes sense right now? It can wait. All I know is, being “away” helps me plan and having time to myself, helps me in my self-development. Its the mediocrity of “people” the q & ‘s that make me shy away so now you know.

If we spent more time working on ourselves than others like a project; oh, we’d be complete, almost! Too much Investing (whatever that may be) into something that brings little fulfilment, can leave you wanting- and with needs still unmet.

Sure, you’re familiar with the saying ‘material things can’t bring you happiness,’ well neither can a job, a relationship or other things we expect to complete us if we’re not already whole. Some of us live vicariously through others on social media, we want to see what others are doing. Not just a celebrity, but our peers, acquaintances, even strangers- if they tick the right box.

So, what are some of the pros & cons of social media?

Here’s a list I made earlier:

Pro’s:

  • You’ve got something to say or good content? you can share it! Platforms are there to use.
  • We can connect with people we don’t know and reconnect with those we do, whether they’re a thousand miles away or ten. Its great for networking too.
  • You’re guaranteed to see something that will make you laugh or make you think.

 

Finally, news comes fast. The rise in technology means a lot of us are on our smartphones, tablets etc. That’s one click from your favourite source of info…

 

Social media

Social Media brings people together :)

 

Cons:

  • As mentioned earlier in my post, ‘we spend more time working on others’  without realising the emotional lacklustre, in ourselves.
  • If your not outdoing your last “post,” you’ll waste time trying to outdo others.
  • A lot is taken out of context: Taking time out from some social media means something’s wrong. Having a life does include being “offline,” too.

“Where you been?”

“Obviously… I’m up to something.”

Investing in myself is as much about finances as it is emotionally, mentally, career wise and my overall well-being. Its this notion, ‘investment,’ that matters when its all said and done.

‘How To Have A Life And Social Media Too’

Thanks for reading!